My Head Start Story
Lisa Sullivan
I was 19 when I became pregnant, and I
did everything I could to prepare for what would become the single most
important moment in my life. The birth of my son thrust me into baby bliss,
but the bliss was all too short. I soon found out that I was not only
a mother, but the mother of a seriously ill child.
When John was five weeks old, he was rushed
to Yale New Haven Hospital where we learned that he has a life-threatening
liver disease. I was crushed, and nothing could have prepared me for what
I was about to face.
Once we came home I began the process of
evaluating John for the special services he needed to help with his development.
At a year old, John still only weighed 13 pounds. Our weeks became filled
with appointments, and John's wellness now consumed my life. It was obvious
that I would be unable to return to work because of John's needs. I soon
realized that, along with receiving Medicaid, I had to face the reality
of becoming a single welfare mom.
Client ID numbers, medical cards, and food
stamps soon became our way of life. Luckily, there were programs in place
to assist my son and me. For the first few years, John participated in
the Early Intervention Birth-to-Three program in New London County; with
their help, his development skyrocketed. When John was three, we were
referred to the Thames Valley Council for Community Action (TVCCA) Head
Start Program.
I was thrilled to learn that Head Start
focuses on both the parent and the child, recognizing the pivotal role
that family plays in the growth and development of the child. John did
well in Head Start, and I quickly became actively involved in the program.
The support of Head Start staff was invaluable. Within the first six months,
I had returned to school, taken my high school equivalency test, and received
my GED. I began attending parent committee meetings, socializing with
other parents, and attending parenting classes. During the next school
year I began to volunteer extensively for the program. Also, I served
on the Head Start Policy Council, the Head Start center committee, and
my community action agency's board of directors.
This was a very empowering time in my life.
I began attending conferences and was elected to serve as my program's
representative to the Connecticut Head Start Association. I later became
Parent Chairperson of the association and was elected to represent Connecticut
parents on the New England Head Start Association board. I now serve as
a Region I representative to the NHSA Board of Directors.
In the fall of 1995, I enrolled in an assessment
of prior learning class at my local community college. I earned 39 credits
towards my degree in one semester, because of the credit I received for
my volunteer experience within Head Start. I graduated from college in
1997 and was honored as the outstanding student of my class. It was one
of the proudest moments of my life.
Now, years later, I have left the welfare
rolls behind and truly lifted my family and myself up by our bootstraps.
In December 1998, I became totally self-sufficient when I received a full-time
contract to work with the Connecticut Department of Social Services as
a Parent Involvement Specialist.
Head Start has provided me with many mentors,
role models, and people who have had faith in my potential. Head Start
has made me who I am today, and has truly become my family's foundation.
It has given me in a few short years what I never could have imagined.
Head Start's Impact on My Life
Joy Baldridge
When I first started working for Adams-Brown
Head Start in 1994, as a provider in my home, I considered myself a nobody!
I had no self-esteem, no future plans, and I had a handicap-no driver's
license! Whenever things would get tough I felt like a turtle and would
want to hide in my shell and not face the world. But now, in 1997, I have
self-esteem, I have a future. I not only have a driver's license, but
I have my commercial driver's license and
I know I am somebody!
In 1994, the position of Head Start Day
Care provider became available to me. At first, I thought I can't do this;
I'm not smart enough, and it will be another part of my life I will fail
at. With the support and encouragement of my supervisor, I did it! I was
finally accomplishing something in my life! As the year went on, she kept
encouraging me to try for my driver's license. Again, I felt like I would
fail and people would look at me as a nobody who couldn't do anything.
But, with her encouraging words, "You can do it, just believe in
yourself," I decided to go for it. I did it! I got my driver's license
and even went on to get my CDL. Boy, was my self-esteem starting to boost.
For once in my life I started to feel like I was a somebody and could
accomplish goals that I set for myself. Today, I am working at the Adams-Brown
Head Start program as a Bus Driver/Family Advocate. I really enjoy working
with parents and encouraging them to believe in themselves, and set goals
for the future so that they too know that they are somebody!
Without my Head Start family I would not
be where I am today! They have taught me how to believe in myself and
that I can succeed in anything I set out to do. I am currently taking
college courses to get a degree in early childhood education. I would
like to someday become a lead teacher for Head Start so that I too can
make a difference in someone's life as Head Start has made in mine!
I want to thank everyone at Head Start for
helping me build my self-esteem and showing me how to believe in myself.
Whenever the days do get tough and I want to be that turtle once again,
I know without a doubt that my Head Start family is always there with
a smile, hug, or a note of encouragement to keep me trying for bigger
and better accomplishments.
This story first appeared in
the Ohio Head Start Association, Inc.'s March-April 1998 newsletter.
Back in Head Start
Frank Olguin
"I was in the first class-and it worked!"
These are the words of Frank Olguin, Region
VIII Head Start Program Specialist. Frank is a graduate of the very first
Head Start class, held during the summer of 1965. His classroom was in
a modular unit on the grounds of the Eugene Field Elementary School in
Albuquerque, New Mexico. Frank and his family lived right across the street
from the school, and every day Frank's mother-who had 13 children-walked
him to and from school.
Frank didn't specifically recall that he
was a Head Start graduate until a few years ago, when he was home visiting
his mother. It was then that she gave him the framed graduation certificate
signed by Lady Bird Johnson and Sergeant Shriver and told him how Head
Start changed the lives of his family.
Mrs. Olguin remembers Frank's Head Start
experience very well. Although his older siblings went to the same school,
his mother had never spent time in the building before. It was the Head
Start teacher who made her feel welcome there. She opened Mrs. Olguin's
eyes to the value of education, telling her that education can open doors
for anyone. Mrs. Olguin decided that helping her children gain an education
was a way to help them succeed.
Frank earned a bachelor's degree in accounting
from Highlands University in New Mexico and recently earned his master's
degree from the Graduate School of Public Affairs at the University of
Colorado in Denver.
Frank has worked for the Federal government
since graduating from college. The more he learned about Head Start, the
more he wanted to be a Program Specialist. When the opportunity opened
up at the Regional Office, he quickly applied. Frank appreciates the value
of Head Start and tries very hard to get his programs everything they
need, including funds, in order for them to provide quality services to
children and families. Frank knows that the people who work in Head Start
can make a difference--they did for him. Head Start isn't just a job-it's
a close community of people who care.
Frank is also a new parent and he applies
his Head Start knowledge regarding early childhood development and early
brain development to his daughter. "For example," Fred says,
"ever since Francisca was born, my spouse and I have read to her
daily, including when I read the newspaper."
Last year, Frank met Representative Loretta
Sanchez at a Woman's Conference in Denver. In her speech she mentioned
being a Head Start graduate, and Frank spoke to her afterwards. She signed
his program, "To Frank, my fellow Head Start Graduate. Sigue Adelante!
Con cariÑo, Loretta Sanchez."
This story first appeared in
the March 1998 issue of the Community Development Institute newsletter.
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